Originally Posted by El Gato
I can't connect to any of you in any way. Which surprises me since I have a lot in common with you folks. Of course I spent so many years of emotional stagnation.. and now a few months of rapid emotional growth.. I dunno, I guess it's me that's weird and all you guys got it going on.
A balance of 'listening' to people, and sharing yourself with people is how I connect with people here.
If you say, "I can't" you take your power away. The fact is, You can, You chose not too. Which is fine, but for me I try to never give my power away to anyone or anything.
People want to be heard, if you hear them, they will hear you as well.
When I share something, I 'try' not to hold any expectations as to what or if I may hear anything back.
There are days here when I also feel like I am not connecting with anyone, I think that is just my perception for the day.
If you look around you are probably more connected than you realize.
I hope you stay.