Yes..CLF..it does make sense...
Stick with the Alanon and the therapy because you need it to make you whole...
Alot of the time our own sense of "self" (our true self or our authentic self) goes into hiding when we are in bad relationships...
so now it's time to rediscover your self and start doing things for you.
So..what do you like to do for fun? What makes you happy?