To be blunt,I really think you need to get with sober people and stay with sober people.Hanging out with people who are not sober,(especially guys)is playing with fire.You need to be on solid ground yourself before you can help others who are struggling.
Remember...this is life or death.You aren't doing yourself or Aaron any favors by hanging out together.And baling him out of his jams could be doing him more harm than good in the long run.
Stick with the winners and do what they do.Take care...
phoenix