i am praying for your grand baby and 3wk is not that bad i don't think. i am sorry that you are not suppose to be there, i pray too that that will soon change.
i had 6 premies,the biggest one was 6wks early,4lb15oz, 3- 7month premies 2 were 4lb and a few ozs,and one was 3lb9ozs and 2- 6mo premies,1 -1lb and a few ounces and the other 2lb and some ozs and i grand d 7-mos at 3lb14ozs.
they all turned out just fine. some hospitals are very good with premies.