I am growing very weary of peoples cruelty. They are a disgrace to their ancestors. You are as close to that little one as a prayer. I guess it hadn't occurred to them that if you didn't know, you couldn't pray. Are they pof the mentality that the little one has enough and couldn't use one more. I'm sorry, so so very sorry. I hate to be negative but as a pediatric nurse, I can't stand one more moronic parent. They do bring all this drama with them to a childs sick room and I have put my finger in more than one face. I mention that because I want you to know that as a pediatric RN, I represent and never forget the grandmas who aren't present. I do lay hands and pray over each baby. From our hearts to Gods ears. Again, I am so sorry.