My heart aches for you Mallowcup. You so many times have offered me good, sound, realistic advise. I urge you to listen to your instincts. Your story of today's events have rung out repetetively in every A relationship. I believe that it is thier way or either justifying their own actions of thier way of reassuring themselves. It is a game, either way our A's are forcing us to prove that we have done nothing wrong, by playing games with our heads, which is ludacris, disrespectful and down right low down dirty. You, as a Christian woman, deserve more. Sending prayers your way.