Welcome HappyCamper
Carol made some good suggestions, she's perty smart ;-)
Hang around the forums, read and contemplate. That'll give you a idea whether or not you have a problem. Being AA myself, I'd (of course) suggest checking out the AA forum too
One line you said stuck out in my mind....
What I have discovered though, or rather admitted to myself today, is that sometimes I have no control over how much I drink
That's something you should think about!
Take care and welcome!