((4Leaf))-- I'm sending you many prayers that you stick to your resolve. You seem very clear in your heart and mind that this type of relationship is unhealthy for you and is something you are not willing to tolerate. If that means taking your phone off the hook or moving for that matter- do it! You know what is best for you. Avoid him and always remind yourself that anything he says to you is simply a drunk/addict trying to once again manipulate a codie.