live, Thank you, you explained that nicely, it is a full time thing to de-tox.
I mentioned I could only stand to be reading, or going to a meeting or being with someone that had BTDT. It is the one time many of us cannot handle loved ones. strange, but seems to be true for many. (always exceptions)
From all you have read, heard and seen I would listen to you closely about alcoholism. I was a light weight alcoholic, but at least I know what blackouts are. Learned much from old timers at many AA meetings.
jen, lots of very good replys on here. hopefully it helps.
I want the best for you both. Keep coming back. It helps to type out our thoughts, fears etc. where everyone understands.