Ya know what?.......Yes, it is a problem to even help her while she is drunk. She got herself that way. So far this is her thinking. "Hmmmmm...I get drunk,....and they take care of me". She has to deal with this problem HERSELF. Until she is ready to admit it IS a problem. Whats the quickest way to that point? By letting the brunt of ALL she does fall squarely on HER shoulders and no one elses. Yes,...it would be bad to HELP her GET drunk. But helping her WHILE she is drunk is just as bad. She thinks that if she can just get herself wasted,...then someone will be there to watch over her. Thats what is happening thus far. You are giving her a reason TO KEEP drinking.