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Old 05-24-2006, 01:19 PM
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Helping here once she is drunk is not wrong. Helping her find a way to get drunk is where you could do better (from what you post)
"Drive me to the store"
NO!
"But I need food"
I will get it for you.

Driving her to get her booze is the one thing I would stop. She wants it, she can find a way to get it.

Co dependant No More is a good book for you to get. Al Anon meetings will give you a place of gathering info and support as well.
Look about and read the posts that say "sticky" beside them at the top of the boards.
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