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Old 05-05-2006, 05:26 PM
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megamysterioso
One brief hour...
 
Join Date: Feb 2006
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Hey Deettah. A big hug to you. I'll tell you what- my mom at this point is essentially acting the same way about my own situation. In fact, I had somewhat of an argument w/her the other day on the phone when she called me in the middle of my work day (uuuugggg) to find out "the exact date I was filing for divorce." I KNOW how exhausting all that can be. I finally called her today and apologized for the whole thing and just let her know the facts and asked her not to question my rationale or get involved any further b/c I know what is best for me. Denny is right, no one will quite "understand" unless they too have been EXACTLY where you are.

Take everyone's advice and just disconnect from EVERYONE for a few days. You need time, space and quiet to sort through everything. It is in your best interest and you will feel so much better. I'm thinking of you and praying for you woman! Put yourself and your child first always.
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