Here,
God,
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change (your A)
Courage to change the things I can (you)
And the wisdom to know the difference.
For starters how about not having the same tired argument of how you've changed with him. Actions speak louder than words.
You won't be able to make him see, or change him or anything with him.
Work on you, try some Alanon meetings, keep coming here.
Ngaire