The last time I spoke with my ex he did that blame game with me.
He went on and on about the things I did during our relationship.
I tried to tell him I had changed xyz but he kept on referencing
things that happened 2 and 3 years ago. Mind you he hasn't seen me
in 11 months and lives 10 hours away but he seems to think he
knows everything. Your situation is a bit different than mine as you
currently reside in the same household. I think the alcohol soaked brain
has a lot to do with it and I also think it's easier to criticize someone else
rather than look at ones own behaviour. I have come to realize that
it's not my problem what my ex thinks of me. It isn't any of my concern or
business at all. What is my concern is that I work on my issues and find
peace and contentment within me. It really doesn't matter to me what
he thinks.....Sorry that this is aggravating to you....I do understand what you
are saying....