(((TG))))'
Be good to yourself and realize he may need something strong to open his eyes. The more responsibility you take for him the less he will take for himself which will not help him at all.
It is compassionate to let someone face the consequences of their actions and not rescue them. It may not be easy to do for us codies. I know you do not want to be his support to stay drunk so don't do it just don't and take very good care of you. If this is the shock he needs to wake up that is great. If it does not wake him up it is still not your fault. Please give this man room to sink or swim...