i dont know the whole story with the homer thing--al i know is i would not approach him that way no matter how long hes been relapsing--maybe it does work for some tough love--obviously i dont have all the answers--if people would have approached me that way i would be dead because of my state of mind at the time--i always think love and support are better than the alternative but that is just my point of view--i dont know what draws people to their point of view cause im not in their shoes--take care once nice--keep postin
Laura