I a sorry, I know this hurts badly....but in time it will make you stronger...and you will know that you did all you could.
It really isn't at all unusual for A's to replace us immediately....mine went thro
a whole spate of them. Respected none of them.
The table turns...now I am the only one he respects, because I got out of it and did much better for myself.
Because yes, they choose other users or willing enablers.