My husband is an A. He is very dry right now. He seems very selfish, stubborn, controlling of the relationship, never wants to talk about anything regarding feelings. I just don't feel like he even cares about me. Says he doesn't need AA meetings. I don't force any issues with him. I was just wanting to know from the people on this message board if this is just all the dry drunk behaviors. He seems to have two emotions anger and immaturity. I am being patient. Any suggestions at all would help out alot!!!!!! Thanks everyone. Lolobug