When I saw her on Friday, she was not pushing the issue of me moving back in. She told me that she would not push me into that corner. So...I have stayed with her. I told her that I will not go back into that same house...with those circumstances. She is aware of him trying to push me into moving back yesterday, and she said that if I did I'd lose all the progress that I have made so far. (and she's right)
She told me that she didn't push the 90 in 90 thing b/c she knew from his visit on Wed. that he'd never do it. She did forward him the sites to be able to go to a meeting though, and requested we both bring a chip to our meeting tomorrow.
I will think about things throughout the week and see where I am on Friday...with wanting to go back or not. I need to make points clear to him about not pushing me into things I am not ready for. (sex) I need my strength for that....he doesn't back off easily.