hello again update on my ABF day 12 still sober. he is tring so hard i am so proud of him but still alittle weary of him. not sure how long it will last but living moment by moment. he went to an old drinking buddies house over the weekend and told him he couldnt hang around him when he drinks. he told his friend that he is an alcoholic and was going to AA. his friend told that was great and he would like to go with him sometime, even though he says he not an alcoholic himself due to the fact he only drinks on tues. and sats. my bf came home and told me this and also said that he knows his friend is fooling himself. but that he only wants hhis life better and cant go around his friend anymore unless he's sober. i tell him i am proud of him everynight. things are great for now but still holding my breathe waiting for the next shoe to fall. i have not found an alaonn group close enough to me yet but still looking. thanks and GOD BLESS linda