Originally Posted by bikewench
Hey Fiya...
Your love for her is apparent... and I believe will ground her to wellness....
Love is a powerful force in countering addiction...
but.. it can't be abused...
So.. she knows it's there..
she knows what she's giving up...
.. potentially.. ;o)
So.. you just hold your course..
Bike.....
That's the BEST advice I've gotten from anyone concerning this matter. THANK YOU SO MUCH. I never thought that genuine love is what matters the most in this....I mean even if I have to be away for a while loving from a distance...or maybe keeping said distance for good.
Matter of fact, this evening when reflecting on things and her reponses to me when I call, it dawned on me that she tells me "I'm fine", whenever I call which says, she's content with where she is and nothing will change that until she get's fed up.....no matter what the reason is. And I felt better because believe me....I've been beating myself up over this.