By the way Sugasnaps, I was in Sacramento for about 5 weeks, then moved to Fresno where things fell apart. California has some beautiful scenery man. The air is bad (lol), but the mountains had me in a trance and I'd sit and stare at them from one end to the next....especially going out to Clovis. And my eyes have not been dimmed because of the people I dealt with. I like Cali and hope to return someday and continue what CAN be a wonderful relationship with a wonderful woman. But I'm no fool and I know that it's something that may never be and have prepared for it, within my heart.