My house became one of them while I slept.
Yes...
It takes over...
And all of them skirt the issues of what they are truly doing to themselves...
they tell themselves.. they're "cool"..
All the while they feel so totally alone...
And those that care about them get dragged behind...
One of the long term members on here had a slogan...
Let go or be dragged.. ;o)
Don't mean we can't still love them...
But.. the outcome of their lives is not in our hands...
That is what we have to give up on...
The outcome of their lives.
We are only responsible for the outcome of our own.... as self centered as that sounds.
Other People can choose to walk with us...
But.. we can't make em walk..
Don't let your love for her cloud your mind...
Your on the right path..