well he came home and said all the right things. like how he now knows he is an A what steps he must take that he's doing it for himself and not any of us. but i still aint holding my breathe, still not conviced he went or not. this is first time he has ever went to a meeting or even talked about it. who knows for sure but i played a great role tonight me and the kids didnt praise him and went on with our night as though it was any other night. also i told him that things wouldnt be same until he proved himself to me completely many months down the road. he didnt get mad and said he understood. but that he was willing to wait and prove he was getting the help he needs. i hope so. but will take it one day at a time min by min hour by hour day by day. thanks and GOD BLESS US ALL