need to unload
hello hope i get a few answers my bf is an alcholic been with him almost 9 yrs. he is such a great guy when he's sober. he thinks he isnt an A because he only drinks beer and can go days even weeks without it. i ride his butt alot that he needs help which doesnt help. i been reading the boards and have learned alot. like how not to be his enabler. so i dont fight with or ride his butt like before this has been going on for about two weeks now. he has been drinking for the last three days, so today he was off work and didnt drink and informed me he was going to an AA meeting tonight. but the problem is i dont believe him. he has lied so many times before and he says he knows he has a problem with drinking but he is still not an A. is this a good sign? or is he just playing mind games again? i wont let myself have hope cause i know he could come home drunk tonight. sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh anyone got any ideas? thanks linda GOD BLESS US ALL