You know, if that bit of information doesn't make you see the light and get you packing, nothing will. Then prepare for a life of misery, lies and infidelity. And maybe an STD or two. Now, how's that for a slap upside the head?
On a gentler note...you're worth so much more and life has so much to offer you. You just have to reach out and take it. You've come this far in making the decisions and arrangements...God put this woman in your life giving you what you asked for. It's what you do with it that matters.
Blessings