Welcome Lil,
You will find a great deal of advice and support from the everyone here. I am sorry to hear about your situation w/ah. I think that you have made the right decision for you AND your son by moving out. If he isn't seeking help to quit drinking, and isn't trying to quit, then you have to do what is best for you. I know that the pain, and the hurt is alot right now. I wish I'd been smarter, sooner. That I had opened my eyes to the life we were living. I have been dealing with A for a long time, w/o realizing it 'was' a major problem in our marriage. My husband quit drinking 7 days ago....do I think it will last. NO! Good Luck.. and keep posting. K.