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Old 02-22-2006, 03:35 PM
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StandingStrong
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Are you currently still with your alcoholic spouse (or whoever the A is in your life)?
Ah moved out March of 2004 - my choice. I filed for dissolution this past year - he didn't sign. So we are still married.

Are they still drinking or recovering and how long sober?
Currently he is not drinking (that I know of). Last drink was sometime in July of 2005. He is not working a program of any kind. Noticing patterns and behaviours that tend to fall under the "dry drunk" description.

Do you feel you are still actively codependant?
I'd say that I'm not an active codependant anymore (But I believe this depends on what you mean by active. I don't enable, I don't rescue, etc) - though there are areas where I know that I could still improve on (I'm working on those).
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