Last alcoholic was September 2004..Now dating a wonderful guy for the past 8 months..Finally understand what a healthy relationship looks like..No drama, no name calling, no abuse..nada..a lot of love and caring..
As far as I know all the ex abfs in my life are still drinking..(and they go back for 19+ years)...
Actively co-dependent? Not really..I'm also an active member of Alanon for almost 2 years so meetings and my sponsor keep my thinking in check..as well as working the steps..