Are you currently still with your alcoholic spouse?
No...She had been drinking, sent her to rehab. Then she had an affair with another drunk she met in Rehab. That was the last straw. Kicked her out in August. Legally separated since November 05.
Are they still drinking or recovering and how long sober?
She is still drinking. Just got another DWI. May now face jail time. Still having affair with rehab lover....with tragic consequences.
Do you feel you are still actively codependant?
Yes.....but I trying to learn!