Are you currently still with your alcoholic spouse (or whoever the A is in your life)?
Yes I am; he's my fiancé, we've been together nearly 2 years. I'm the love of his life and he is mine. I'm 51 and he is 45.
Are they still drinking or recovering and how long sober?
Phil has been an alcoholic for over 20 years and seeking to stay sober for about 8 years; he has had 1 major relapse and one minor relapse in the last 3 years.
He is 6 weeks sober after a short relapse.
Do you feel you are still actively codependant?
I made a few mistakes in the early days due to ignorance of alcoholism; I soon remedied that lack of knowledge through research and joining SR.
Phil deals with his alcoholism; I support him.
Last edited by susane1408; 02-22-2006 at 11:39 AM.
Reason: Got the sober weeks wrong! I put 5 should be 6!!