I am going to Al-anon and my older son is going to alateen meetings. I also see two counselors, one who specializes in alcholism and the other is my personal counselor. So I am trying to set appropriate boundaries into place and put my needs and the needs of my boys first.
Funny that you mentioned mental health issues. My H has been diagnosed with panic disorder and post tramatic stress disorder. He had quite a traumatic childhood.
Thanks for the suppport.