maramax

for me its hard to understand detatchment with love in our day to day life. I know that my old reactions are not working and I need to react different but sometimes I am not sure what that means. I don't want to fall back into my old patterns but I am not sure how to react to things. I also am finding it hard when it comes to things with the kids. My sponsor said to try thinking of as not detaching but respect with love. I kind of understand that because I need to let him make his our mind up about things and to stay out of it. I will keep reading and trying to understanding it. Thanks everyone