Yes Minnie, I agree about living in the past or future LOL.
equus, you are indeed special ....... so you love what you know, what you feel in D's soul in his being. You don't just love the "dressing", you love very deeply and openly. It seems to me you love D because he makes you a better person, in your soul. He touches you is how I'd put it ...... not many people can say that about their marriage ..... but I can :-)