The thing is, our lives are highly intertwined. We both work for the same company, doing the same thing. Which we both enjoy. I love going to work every morning because that's 9 hours in the day that I get the sober husband. It's a double edged sword. What happens when his drinking starts bleeding into work? What happens when they all figure out, our perfect little world is far from perfect? Everyone says an alcoholic has to hit "rock bottom". Well I don't want to be pulled under so he can hit his rock bottom.