Thank you for all your links and comments. I started combing through them today. Very useful stuff and so much I think it will take me the weekend to process it all.
Aaron, thank you for helping me feel less crazy about the incident the other night. Just knowing I wasn't the only one feeling awkward means alot. And the Group Of Drunks is a great point of reference. Thanks!
BSP. thanks for the smart recovery link . I started reading some of there stuff and it sounds like it might benefit my family for it covers more addictive behaviors than just alcohol and drugs.
illbeback, I won't agree to go just yet, however, I will call NA to find out when and where they meet. It's probably a message in disquise that the Alano Club is just around the corner from where I work. However, the more I read, the more comfortable I am feeling about checking out all the groups to find the right fit for me. Thank goodness there is no one way to deal with all of this stuff.