He's 38. I suppose you could go see him. I wouldn't bail him out. He is your son and you will have no effect on his sentence. He's in a jam you can't get him out of. He is a man so what he does with his life from here is up to him. I would treat him like any other 38 year old son. No money, he isn't living with you, oucould ask him what his plans are.