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Old 04-11-2024, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted by ToughChoices View Post
Does this ring true/familiar for anyone else?
Definitely. You can spot the potential problem drinkers from the normies for a mile away. I was at a performance/event thing last night; you could see those people who were literally itching for intermission to arrive so that they could get back to the bar, and then coming back laden with enough booze to get them through the 2nd half.

Originally Posted by ToughChoices View Post
At this point it just makes me want to make myself available in the future- if they come to believe they have a problem.
Such a good point.

Originally Posted by Buckley3 View Post
100%
Also have had the weird experience multiple times where when someone finds out I quit they start sharing all kinds of info about their habit - awkward. :P
It's astonishing how often this happens; and is such a blatant tell for someone who is in those early stages of being worried about their drinking... running through all those (pointless) tests trying to determine if they were "as bad" as you and whatnot.
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