Originally Posted by
Kt54 
I blocked him on social media this morning and I already felt a little better.
But then today he messaged me asking to meet for a coffee!
Going no contact with my qualifier was the only way I could get away and start to heal. It was super hard as I was crazy in love with him (emphasis on the "crazy").
Unfortunately he will probably continue to contact you and his motives for doing so are probably self serving. You are unlikely to get any healing closure from such a meeting just new hurt and more confusion.
Strength to you you fine person. Keep checking in.
PS: no judgement here if you do meet with him. I went back many times.