Husband came home last night after attending a St. Patrick's day get together that is connected to his job. He was completely trashed and brought home by an Uber that he urinated in. Now, Uber is claiming that there is a $100 fee for "bodily waste". I guess it's better than he usually does by driving home. I recently heard about this drug called, Antabuse, that makes the alcoholic violently ill if they drink. I'm going to bring it up tomorrow and see if he's interested in it. I like the idea of punishing the alcoholic when they drink. Apparently, after even a single beer, the person will be unable to drink more. I bought the Melody Beatie book at a used book store and read some. But I'll be honest, I still think shaming my husband is what will finally get through to him. I don't like the idea that I'm as sick as him. I put my children first every day and function in the real World.