I think this is another issue but he doesn’t feel that he has an ongoing issue with gambling - he knows that what happened was dreadful and out of control and knows at that moment in time that it was cross addiction whilst he was in rehab. He is paying the money back through a debt management company and will be for approximately 9 years which I know is also such a long time of financial restrictions as he is almost paying out 40% of wages on his debts. I just can’t help but still see him as the man he was before the addiction as he is still there he is kind and patient, he really does workship the ground I walk on and I know he loves me more than anything and over the past 5 months things have been so good until the obvious slip. I just don’t know how I am supposed to walk away when I know he is still in there as I’ve seen it over the last 5 months.
He is going to and on virtually several meetings a week on top of the sponsor and also the big book revision. But it is all around the alcohol - not what happened with the live casino situation (it happened over 4 weeks whilst he was in rehab). He is banned from all of the gambling websites now and can’t get any lending.