Originally Posted by mylifeismine
Sorry but I think you should be really grateful
for him doing this, I think it's a really great thing, nothing to be bummed about at all!
Are you involved in alanon? I'm sorry but I can't recall your support system? The time alone
thing is best and it needs to be mutual. You two were together 24/7 for some time and frankly
thats not sustainable or healthy. This is good growth, and hopefully you will expand your
friendships and activities with others, it is important for success.
@ToughChoices don’t be sorry! I completely agree with you! That’s why I didn’t say anything when it came up. I’m glad he’s doing these things. I do have al anon meetings, but frankly not a ton of other support. I had a bit of a falling out with my closest friend over all this (she was extremely triggered because she’s been in some very abusive relationships and is an ACA). I have family, but I don’t talk to them about this stuff much.