I loved that book. I think it was my first glimpse into how hard life could be, and yet, still hopeful. Little Ann and Old Dan.
I think some people are like racoons, but fortunately, not everyone.
5 years is a good, long time and I hope to be like you one day, davaidavai. I hope you can find some peace though- the theme of the book you speak of is essentially hopeful despite the tragedy in its pages. Life is hard, the key is being determined to find the good and fostering it like that little fern those dogs left behind.