Hi
Sounds like he doesn't care about you but knows you will help him when he needs it and give him attention when he needs it. He is keeping you on the hook by throwing in a couple nice things mixed in all the bad. You deserve someone who is eager to hear about your day and your life. A good person would be excited by your fantastic life and want to be a part of it. Since he is just your bf and you don't live together I would take that as a good thing because at least you aren't married with kids trying to navigate this. Stop contacting him, block him if you need to, and yes it'll be a difficult couple of weeks but let yourself cry and then one day you'll feel like getting up off the kitchen floor because you're just done crying and you will get back to making your life great again. You can do it good luck.