Thanks for the feedback. I can see that it may come to that sometime soon. But so far, nothing illegal.
I read on another thread that you miss the person that they were... or maybe the person you think they were. It seems that that person never existed. He had such promise, and we imagined a future of that bright, loving boy we knew, but those ideas were in our heads. So we're suffering not the death of a person that existed, but the death of our hopes.