Thanks you guys. Space is exactlY what I need. I have been working a lot lately and very hard, and to come home to a drunken wife every night who is doing nothing is just not OK anymore. We will separate. I can't take this anymore. When we do she can do what she wants, and all I want is piece. I am not even sure at this point that I would ever want to visit this again. She does not seem to care enough to make any sort of effort at all, and I cannot abide by that. I am too young, and I have given enough and have overcome my own drinking. She refuses to do one damned thing to save herself and salvage out marriage. Done here May 1st, and most likely for good. It can't get here fast enough, is all I can say. Thanks to everyone for your words of wisdom. I am always one who listens to reason.