Thank you all for the great advise. I guess all along I new the answer to my own question which I think I often do. If only I could listen to the voice inside, because it is always right. I don't know why I go against my concience.
Anyway... I was at a meeting last night and got some good feed back from them as well. I can't make her change and being upset at her behaviors is only upsetting me so it's time to let it go. If or when I see her I will be friendly but not giving.
Thanks again..... Lvrofbutrflys