Hi Shamrock,
I read your other thread, and my heart goes out to you.
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This is going to sound dumb, but does your wife know how close she is to losing everything? I know it must be very hard to talk to her at the moment, but if it were me, I would tell her the truth. Either she stops drinking or loses you—end of story.
Honestly, that is exactly what I would do. I worked too hard for this life to lose it.
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