Thank you so much FWN for your contribution to helping me just to think about my different options. My DIL is codependent and will not get therapy she says she has done nothing and does notneed therapy. She says my son is the one who needs help, with which I am in agreeance, but can not force him to do anything. I have tried to talk to him and he still sees himself without a drinking problem. All this is affecting my health in which I am struggling. Exercise used to help, but I think the older you get the more your body is affected. I am trying to help myself because if my health declines, I am of no use to anyone, which also includes myself.
Thank you so much again for your reply. I am truly grateful for this forum. The insight, in my opinion, is priceless and in my time of true need, this group of supporters never fail to respond. For this I am also very grateful.