Originally Posted by
Anna 
Klio, I'm glad you posted and I'm sorry for your situation. Obsessive thoughts are so hard to deal with. If you enjoy reading at all, these books are highly recommended:
"Obsessive Love" by Dr. Susan Forward
"Women Who Love Too Much" by Robin Norwood
Thank you, Anna. Yes, I read a lot, that's another thing that brings me comfort. I will definitely read the books you recommended. I appreciate the suggestion.